“Children are not a distraction from the most important work, they are the most important work,” CS Lewis.
There’s unpaid overtime – with back to back early and late shifts a given – unexpected expenses come with no reimbursement, public holidays aren’t recognised and, for that matter, neither are weekends. There’s no performance reviews, no opportunity for a payrise – in fact, there’s no pay at all.
Chances are, if it was employment, you would have called in the mediators and the union would be threatening a strike.
Although motherhood is one of the most remanding roles many of us will ever undertake, in the same breath, it is also one of the most rewarding.
While at face value Mother’s Day represents an annual opportunity to thank our mums for all their tireless dedication, it’s also a great opportunity for mums to take a step back and see themselves from their children’s perspectives.
When those little eyes look up at you, they see perfection. When those little hands reach out to hold you, they see your strength. In this one little person’s eyes, heart and mind, you are their world.
Although motherhood can be a thankless task a lot of the time and time to reflect is a luxury many simply don’t have, to those small humans you are enough, you are important and you are worthy.
To all the mums – and mums to be – out there, happy Mother’s Day from the Metropol team. Job well done.
Christchurch’s go-to place for the coolest, contemporary gifts has re-opened in a handy part of town.
The General Store is downstairs from 33 Lichfield Street Carpark – opposite the Justice Precinct – with the first hour of parking free. With dual entrance, it’s part of the new development on the south side of Cashel Mall.
After 12 years, from its beginning in Sol Square and until recently the Re:START Mall, owner Sonya Henry has created a unique experience in store – you’ll be inspired to browse the stylish range. “We enjoy stocking brands with a story of great design and responsible ethos,” she says.
“You will be proud to give a meaningful gift from The General Store.”
From a little something for a dear friend to a tasteful New Zealand souvenir, your gift will be beautifully wrapped in one of the many gorgeous papers available.
It’s the perfect place to find your Mother’s Day gift. Visit www.thegeneralstore.net.nz.
Win your precious mum a stunning Argyle Pink and White Diamond pendant from Partridge Jewellers, valued at $1,200!
Show much you care by giving her the gift of luxurious relaxation and exquisite pampering. Whisk her away from the pressures of every-day life, and treat her to an experience dedicated to making her feel loved, treasured and truly special.
All Champs-Elysées Luxury Gift Vouchers purchased over $100 before 11th May will go in to the draw to win this beautiful piece of jewellery! The diamond pendant features the letter ‘M’ for Mum so Champs-Elysées Day Spa has created a range of luxurious Mother’s Day gift packages to suit every type of Mum:
For busy mums
Power Pamper Package ($199) – a pampering experience that fits all of her essential body and beauty treatments into 75 minutes! The Power Pamper Package includes a Neck & Shoulder Massage, Hauté Couture Facial, Gel Peptide Mask, Brow Sculpt, Brow Tint, Head & Scalp Massage plus a File & Polish (choose fingers or toes).
For mums with expensive taste
Matis Kaviar Facial ($210) – the ultimate in luxury rejuvenating facials, featuring Activ’ Kaviar Pearls, with caviar extract, rich in proteins to boost, energise and deeply nourish the skin, combined with amino essential acids to revitalise cellular renewal. This glorious 75 minute facial effectively works to plump and firm the skin, leaving it feeling smooth and refined and looking wonderfully luminous. Also included is a luxurious arm exfoliation and massage.
For mums dreaming of a tropical getaway
Tropical Island Bliss ($245) – a 2 hour luxury experience all about beauty and pure relaxation and is designed to deeply nourish and pamper your body from head to toe. Featuring Pure Fiji’s deliciously zesty infusion of Coconut & Lime Blossom, this luxury pamper package includes an Exfoliating Body Polish, a relaxing Back, Neck & Shoulder Massage enhanced with placement of hot stones and a luxurious Tropical Island Bliss Facial.
For mums who love to indulge
Pure Indulgence Luxury Body Spa ($325) – an experience of relaxation, well-being and pure indulgence. This half day of pampering starts with an invigorating full body exfoliation, followed by a body wrap of her choice, (choose from Relax, Slim or Anti-ageing). While she is cocooned in the body wrap, she will be pampered with a luxurious foot scrub & massage or a heavenly head & scalp massage, followed by a glorious full body massage.
For mums who deserve the ultimate in luxury
The Champs-Elysées Diamond Club ($1,990): An exclusive 12-month membership, giving her the perfect excuse to make some precious time for pampering herself every month while enhancing beauty, health and wellbeing. It includes:
• Monthly one-hour Champs-Elysées Diamond Club Facial
• Monthly 30-minute beauty treatment of your choice
• Luxury Spa Party for her and two friends
• 10 percent discount on all additional spa services and retail purchases
• Exclusive invitation to Champs-Elysées Diamond Club events.
To purchase a Champs-Elysées Luxury Gift Voucher, please visit the Merivale Day Spa, order online at www.champs-eysees.co.nz, or phone 03-365 3630 and a beautifully packaged gift voucher will be sent directly to you or your precious mum. Mention Metropol when booking to enter the draw to win a stunning diamond ‘M’ pendant from Partridge Jewellers.
The romance of winter has arrived at French Blue with stunning scarves, classic raincoats and gifts bearing quintessential European charm – it’s Mother’s Day shopping bliss.
Owner Catherine Matthews has sourced gorgeous scarves by Pom. Made in Amsterdam in cotton as silky as English Lawn, they’re adorned with artwork from turtles and tigers to village scenes. And stylish Italian scarves are of linens, cashmere and modal.
Hand-selected raincoats, by Ilse Jacobsen of Denmark, are practical but feminine investment pieces. Heavier-weight, washable, water-repellent jackets are ultra-warm as are the quilted coats. In contrast, the shell and feather-down jackets are super light. Colours range from mustard, taupe and French pink to inky-hued navy. Shaped to fashionably flatter, the detailing is divine.
Other gifts for mums are beautiful interior books, handmade European jewellery, candles and French soaps in glamorous scents such as cassis and mistral – or why not gift champagne or prosecco gummies in a classic little lolly jar?
We owe our existence to mothers. If it weren’t for them, we would not be here today. That is why Caesars Restaurant and Bar in Northwood Supa Centa puts all its effort into making mothers feel extra special on Mother’s Day, including a complimentary drink.
If she isn’t a ‘Breakfast in bed’ type of woman, why not pop down to Caesars to sample the Mother’s Day Brunch menu. Available from 10am until 12, the dishes are all classics and she’ll find her favourite amongst Pancakes, Eggs Bene, Omelette and Feast selections.
Or, if sleeping in is mum’s treat, a special Mother’s Day menu is available from 11am until late that is sure to suit all tastes and budgets, with favourites like Roast Pork or Turkey, Sirloin Steak, Stuffed Chicken Breast and Fish of the day. Caesars even caters for kids, with a special Mother’s Day kids’ menu, including a free ice cream cone with sprinkles and children’s play area to keep them entertained while you enjoy your meal.
Making you feel welcome is the modus operandi at Caesars, and specials offers enhance the atmosphere at the joyous Family feast. Friday’s bring the well- deserved Friday Shout – a complimentary beverage with main meals. A Birthday boy or girl receives the Birthday Shout – a free main meal with reservations of 6 adults or more. (Conditions apply to all Caesars promotions.)
Don’t forget to check Caesars’ Facebook page and website for conditions and more information about various specials available daily.
Twin stores Fredrick Ashley and Little Freds at Fendalton Mall are bursting with treasures for you to discover. Winter 2018 in both stores indulges with the richness of wool, velvet and faux fur in coats, knits, ponchos and wraps.
Uncover luxurious winter cocktail and wedding dressing, sport luxe, work and snuggly Sundays, in these two Aladdin’s caves of clothing, accessories, giftware and homewares.
The gorgeous clothing is priced from affordable to investment, so you can style a hi-lo look, or unearth a fabulous special on the end of a rack. Both Fredrick Ashley and Little Freds cater for all ages and the littlies don’t miss out on the treasure hunt with the stylish and practical children’s ranges at Little Freds.
The helpful and experienced sales team know the ranges well and can help you put looks together. The philosophy is to help you find pieces that absolutely suit you and your style. Individuality is key, and between the two stores there are only ever a few of each piece in varying sizes and colours.
Mother’s Day gift buying is covered at Fredrick Ashley and Little Freds, stocked with accessories and homewares to delight all tastes. If you’re unsure about what mum would like, the gift vouchers can be used at either store. There is a 24-hour appro service and layby too, so come in; explore, adore!
You know your mum is a queen – so make sure you treat her like royalty this Mother’s Day with an indulgent high tea in Market Place Restaurant at Crowne Plaza Christchurch!
This Mother’s Day, the cosmopolitan Market Place Restaurant will be looking especially stylish, dressed with white tablecloths and filled with beautiful blooms from Bourbon Rose Florist. Music by resident pianist Peter Lewis will complete the superb ambience of the special day.
In addition to a range of sweet and savoury classics gorgeously presented on tiered stands, specialist stations around the restaurant will offer delicious treats including a selection from Cakes By Anna, affogato and iced coffee, a chocolate fountain and a range of T2 teas.
Hotel General Manager Reinier Eulink is upbeat about hosting the first Mother’s Day. “Since opening, Crowne Plaza has been popular with locals celebrating special occasions and we’re excited to add Mother’s Day to our calendar.”
For $49 per person you receive high tea, including a glass of bubbly on arrival, and unlimited coffee and T2 tea, making this deluxe experience the best gift you’ve given mum yet!
There are two afternoon options: 12-1:30pm, or 3-4:30pm and bookings are essential – email firstname.lastname@example.org to secure your Mother’s Day spot.